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Getting Them to the Bench

 

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Need some fresh ideas for getting your child to the bench for practice time? Read on!

 

CONSISTENT DAILY PRACTICE ROUTINE

Have an established daily practice time, like right after breakfast. Stick to this time. Generally, the more consistent you are, the more willingly your child will follow the routine, and the less resistance you will encounter.

 

PROVIDE COMPANY

Try using inviting words with a cheerful tone: “Let’s go to the piano for music time!” Many kids will go to the piano more willingly if you provide some company during their practice time. Some children like you to sit right next to them on the bench, others will just want your presence in the room (you can just enjoy a peaceful moment reading a book).

 

AVOID THE BANISHMENT APPROACH 

Never say things like, “Go out there and practice right NOW!” We don’t want practicing to feel like punishment or a time-out.

 

GIVE A TREAT

Generally, I am not a fan of giving tangible treats or rewards because I want kids to learn to love music for its own sake. However, I think an occasional special treat or reward can provide an excellent boost to motivation. Instead of waiting until the end of practice to get a treat, why not give the reward at the beginning? You could say to your child, “I have 3 chocolate chips for anyone who knows how to cheerfully come to the piano for practice time!” Enjoy the treat together–you probably deserve 3 yourself–and then dive into practicing.

 

AVOID HARSH OR NEGATIVE TONES

Remember, we don’t want kids to associate practicing with anger or negativity.

 

MAKE YOUR CHILD FEEL LIKE THE EXPERT

The following technique works well with younger kids. Sit down at the bench and begin playing one of the songs your child is working on. Make a lot of very obvious mistakes, then pretend to get stumped. Say something like, “Wow, I really need someone to show me how to do this. I can’t remember how this song goes.” Most kids will very willingly come and set you straight.

 

Happy playing,

Joseph Hoffman

 

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6 Responses to Getting Them to the Bench

  1. This site is a god send. I was turning my child against the piano but didnt know what to change in my behaviour. Youve hit it on the head! Thank you so much!

  2. I love the idea of making intentional mistakes as I try to play the song. I’ve found that this method works for other subjects as well.:-)

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